Feb 062012
 
Aspergers in Housekeeping

Wikipedia says about the novel Housekeeping, Housekeeping is a novel by the Pulitzer Prize-winning author Marilynne Robinson. It was published in 1980, nominated for the Pulitzer Prize for Fiction, and given the PEN/Hemingway Award for best first novel. In 2003, the Guardian Unlimited named Housekeeping one of the 100 greatest novels of all time, describing [...]

Jan 222012
 
Explanations destroy respect?

Back in early October of 2009, I was told explaining yourself to others can cause them to lose respect towards you. No one ever pointed that out to me before. Also back then, I finished reading Child Training Tips: What I wish I knew when my children were young by Reb Bradley. That book opened [...]

Jan 182012
 
A Dangerous Woman

Back in January of 1995, while searching for a movie to rent in a local video rental store (before I knew about Aspergers), I prayed for God to show me what He would like me to experience watching. Minutes later, I found the movie “A Dangerous Woman” on the shelf. On the back of the [...]

Dec 172011
 
Unrighteous Anger Lacks Empathy; Not Asperger's

Empathy is the ability to understand how someone feels because you can imagine what it is like to be them. Just because you can imagine what it is like to be them, doesn’t mean you will always want to. Most children can be coerced to apologize. Even Asperger’s children, if they’re growing up in a [...]

Nov 232011
 
How Unsuccessful People Deal with Aspergers

Penelope Trunk¹ wrote How Successful People Deal with Aspergers. Her advice is interesting, but completely useless for unsuccessful Aspergers people like me. It’s obvious already that to become successful one must work hard. I did, and still do, work hard at the things I set my mind to doing. When I determine to do something [...]

Oct 162011
 
Aspergers and Being Asexual

Since I can speak from personal experience, it’s probably helpful I pass along brief information about Aspergers and asexuality. The statement Tony Atwood makes on pages 308 and 309 of his book The Complete Guide to Asperger’s Syndrome, …the partner of a man or woman with Asperger’s syndrome is more likely to be concerned about [...]

Oct 042011
 
How To Be a Content Aspie

To be a content worldly Aspie,¹ look to Dr. Sheldon Lee Cooper of The Big Bang Theory as a mentor. There is good reason, “…he’s poised to become a pop-culture emblem of the Aspie.” Jim Parsons (Sheldon Cooper) believes Sheldon “couldn’t display more traits” of Asperger’s. I find that impressive for a neurotypical to realize. [...]

Mar 222011
 
The Two Validation Choices

Around the beginning of last December I wrote Five Quotes from Three Posts into Two Books. Since then, I’ve completed reading these two books introduced back then that include some things I said on my blog. I have also been in contact with both of those authors and am now ready to say more about [...]

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